When someone makes you the happiest person and the saddest person at the same time, that’s when it’s real. That’s when it’s worth something.
Forget what hurt you in the past but never forget what it taught you. Everybody deserves second chances to prove that the same mistake won’t happen again.
I love every single thing about you. You’re the one I want and there’s no doubt about that. You make me smile, you make me happy beyond measure. You’re always making me laugh and you always know what to say and when to say it. That’s the thing that I love about you.
When you text me in two’s because one long text just won’t suffice. The way you mock me, even to the gasp of air. When you lay your head down on my lap and just sleep for an extended period of time. The way you smile, how one dimple is more promenant then the other. How you take your tea the exact same way that I do. The way that you smell so good. Your vast taste in fashion and style. How your laugh is so infectious, it gets me every time. That you are passionate in your art and the way you produce such amazing work. When you play Chef Benny in the kitchen. How you teach me Cantonese and tell me stories. The way your mind works, how big and creative it can be. The way you sing so loud in the car, not caring how you off-tune you can be. How you wear your heart on your sleeve everyday. The way you are so competitive and dedicated when it comes to gaming. That god damn sassy mole. When you unleash a rapid fire of farts, even though they smell horrific.The fact that you are in the present; these are the things that make my heart go boom.
I don’t mind if our conversations get a little boring. I don’t mind if we text and we run out of things to say. I don’t mind if we hang out and we’re not doing anything. End of day, I don’t mind what we do because I know I will always have you. Porcelain.
Assumption and lack of communication are the number one relationship killers. We all perceive differently; we’ve lived different lives and we have different views. Understand that before getting angry at someone for not believing what you believe and/or feel.
If you ever fall in love, fall in love with someone who wants to know your favourite colour and how you like your coffee. Fall in love with someone who loves the way you laugh and would do absolutely anything to hear it. Fall in love with someone who puts their head on your chest just to hear your heart beat. Fall in love with someone who kisses you in public and is proud to show you off to anyone they know. Fall in love with someone who makes you question why you were afraid to fall in love in the first place. Fall in love with someone who falls in love with your flaws and thinks you’re perfect just the way you are. Fall in love with someone who thinks that you’re the one they would love to wake up to each day.
Experience, growth and the will to “try” is far greater than your ability to shut down every time you’re scared and want to play it safe.
No relationship is perfect, ever. There are always some ways you have to compromise, to give something up and to gain something greater. The love we have for other other is bigger than these small differences, and that’s the key! It’s like a big pie chart and the love in the relationship has to be the biggest piece; love can make up for a lot.
When I tell you that I love you, I don’t say it out of habit. I say it to remind you that you’re the best thing that’s ever happened to me.
As we get older, you tend to love people for who they are, flaws and all because in the end, you finally see that you have just as many.
Everyone makes mistakes, it’s a part of life. Without mistakes, we wouldn’t have lessons. Never regret your mistakes, learn from them, and then grow.
Life isn’t about winning or losing. Its about not giving up. Sometimes we put so much stress on winning or losing that we fail to recognize the lesson in everything; and the lesson that really matters. Its how you will win after a loss, its how you will keep winning after you’ve won before. Remember, we must fail in order to succeed.
I know when it comes to you and I, we often get reminded of the past, sometimes quite too often. You will always be there to tell me how much hurt you encountered and how it changed you as a person; I will always let you know how sorry I am for my mistakes and that I have chosen to accept my past and grow from it. Back then, we once talked about how maybe it just wasn’t our time to be together. Maybe we were right, but we’ll never have the opportunity to find out. But I’ll tell you something I do know. I know that one day, somewhere in the distant future, our day will come. I know because I’ve not only dreamt about it, but I asked the universe for it. And when that day comes, I want you to know something: our relationship will not be defined by superiority. All comparisons will be dropped, no stupid ideas of being superior and inferior. You and I are neither superior nor inferior, we are simply ourselves. There exists no one like you, and no one whom you can be compared to. There’s a reason why I chose you and only you because I want only you. If I’m dating you, you won’t need to get jealous of other people because I would give you the constant reassurance that you need to let you know how much you are loved and cared for. I would provide you with love, security, loyalty, and honesty. I want our relationship to be like Yang and Meridith; I want to be your person, your best friend.
The people who are meant to be in your life will always gravitate back towards you, no matter how far they wander.